Sunday, August 9, 2009

Today, i'm going to post a few steps on how to chase a girl! Excited? Wait till you read! (it actually works if you follow them closely, if it doesn't, good for you as you can discover other ways!

1. Throw away your pride.
Basically, before you do anything, this mayb be one of the most important and difficult task all men have to do. Throw away your pride! Don't give up chasing a girl just because you're scared your friends may laugh at you! So, in order to chase a girl, you have to throw away your pride(not all of it) you have to be strong at times and show your soft side at times too.

2.Physical Attraction!
To attract a girl you wanna chase, you have to go workout in the gym, jogging around your neighbourhood and the results will be sweet! THis step is probably the simplest and only require brawns to complete it!

3.Don't rush into a relationship.
Make sure you guys are friends first! You have to know each other well before you proceed on the a further step. Know each other's likes and dislikes, rushing into a erlationship would only result in quarrels and gradually you may start thinking, "Wait, this isn't what i expected her to be!" or "Did she changed? Or i did not know her well enough?" This is terrible..but guys, if you really love her, learn to accept everything about her. That may save the relationship but hey, it takes 2 to clap, she needs to co-operate too!

4.Be romantic at times and be humorous!!
To move a girl's heart, you have to say romantic stuff thats why you have to throw away your pride right? If you are scared to embarass yourself saying romantic statements to a girl, you really shouldnt waste your time..right? Okay, now on to humorous, this is also one of the most important step. Sometimes, the girl you are chasing can be down at times, that is possibly one of the chances you have to take, make her laugh, let her tell you whats troubling her, if that happens, you're on your way to an A+! But don't forget, dont just hear what she has to tell you, listen carefully and make sure you don't say stuff that may be sensitive to her. Always put on a natural smile to brighten the atmosphere around you and her!

5.Bring her out on dates. Movies or meals are great!
Don't worry if you have a tight budget, you don't have to go to an extend to classy restaurants(although that wold be great) to make her like you more. Hmm, food is very important too! Some classy restaurants charge a price that is rip-off and the food sucks! Personally i would never go to "Kopitiams" or food courts in shopping centers. Why? The food sucks, it's over crowded and a bit on the rip off price! I suggest that if you do not know where to find good food, ask around, friends, parents, teachers! Good food will also brighten the spirit around you guys as you guys will enjoy the food and have more topics to talk about as you are in great spirits!

6.Be honest!
Okay you guys may get cofused but don't worry! You should be honest to the girl you are chasing, don't change your personality, just be yourself! If she's interested in you, she'll also accept the way you are! Don't be a total goodie-too-shoes and be so perfect infront of her and her friends where you are actually not what you are in the inside..

7.Try to know her family and friends more!
It's important too as friends and family plays an important role in everyone's life right? They influence and sometimes change your perceptions of things. Make a good impression on her family and friends as it makes a good impact on what her family and friends are gonna say to the girl you wanna chase. Like.. "Hey he's so cool!" LOL!!!

8.Treat the girl you are chasing and other girls differently.
Make her know that she is important to you! How? Don't talk so intimately with other girls or with her friends! She will feel that she is being treated the same like you do to all girls. That will make her think that she isn't important and think that you just wanna be friends with her!

9.Time and jealousy.
Spend more time with her, talk to her if you have problems but don't WHINE! Don't sound like a baby crying, make yourself sounds serious and matured BUT STAY HONEST! Don't come up with tales to make her worried, you'll be a jackass for example, "Oh no my family is breaking apart, what can i do? I'm so useless" Only share problems with her when you really have one, don't keep making her worry :( thats not cool. You can't possibly avoid jealousy if you see her talking happily with some other guy you don't know right? You are dying to know who's that guy, what's he up to. But hey, respect her privacy and talk things out if you're really uncomfortable!

10.The end!
This is not a step!

haha thanks for reading!

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