Steps on how to kiss a girl.

Okay some of you have been calling me Doctor Love in school after you read my Steps to a Girl. After you got her, you must keep the relationship alive! But how? AHA! Scream S.O.S! Help is on its way! I'm not a Love Doctor like Gary Ng but at least some advice would prove useful! Okay, one important thing to keep a relationship going is to kiss, but how? You dont know when to kiss a girl and she wont tell you, but! There's a loophole, girls would have body language, consciously or sub-consciously! So, we guys must find out when to kiss a girl! (Girlfriend) not some chick you pick off the club!


The main problem that guys face when trying to kiss a girl is knowing if they're ready. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn awkward. Get it right, and well... you'll know. Here's how you can increase your odds.

Are you ready?

I CANT HEAR YOU!!!!

Are you ready?

I CANT HEAR YOU!

Are you ready?

I CANT HEAR YOU!

Okay i do now..

Step 1.
Make her comfortable with laughter but not too much! Humor is statistically the most attractive quality between a couple! It spices up stuff and keeps the conversation going, that way you guys can have plenty to talk about! For instance, it's probably not a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where someone is being killed. Use a nice, romantic spot. Who doesn't like a sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night,on the beach? Good idea right? Okay Singapore may not be that nice but, choose a place that has privacy around you guys!

Step 2.
Stare into her eyes and move gently closer to her. Better to not ask a girl to kiss you, because that ruins the moment and you might lose your kissing chance. A kiss, especially the first, is about the risk. It's about taking the chance with the girl and, hopefully, she will respond in a positive manner. If she doesn't want to kiss you, you should be able to figure it out through body language

Step 3.
Put your hand on her cheek.
Go for it! Okay, this is probably one of the most important steps! Compressed together! Lean in for the kiss, try a peck for your first kiss, then move on to longer, more passionate kisses when you're both ready, use the other hand to stroke her hair or neck. Remember, find what you were talking about before and keep going if you're not kissing anymore, remain normal after the kiss. You don't want to leave any sort of bad impression!

Step 4.
Be observant! Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will want you. When a girl wants to kiss you:
She squeezes your hand.
She looks at your lips or looks down.
She touches your chest instead of arm.
She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking.
She touches her own lips for a second then pulls away quickly!

Step 5.
Try to have your first kiss before the end of the night. It's spontaneous, and you might just catch a chance for a beautiful kiss she'll remember for a long time that you'd miss by waiting until the end of the night. If you get a chance to kiss her when saying goodnight, don't hesitate, but be warned that it might not set you apart from all the other "boring" guys who kissed her when saying goodnight. REMEMBER! It is probably best done in a private place, so that you two feel more comfortable!! :D

Step 6.
Make sure she is ready for the feelings you two will have for each other knowing that you kissed! Haha every steps are important, but how do you know she likes it? When you pull away, you will immediatly know if she liked it. If she didn't then she will casually without making you notice change the subject. Whereas if she did like it she may want you to carry on by pulling you towards her again. Don't feel upset if she 'rejects' you because of the kiss. It happens to everyone.


Okay these are all the important steps :D Make sure that you know that both of you want to do this. Kissing someone requires two willing people, so make sure that you're both ok with doing this thing!!! Do not rush. take things slowly cos if your girlfriend is tired or not in the passionate mood, dont start the whole heavy breathing kissing thing. This will ruin your chances!!

Thanks for reading!